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The Yoni Dance is a self-discovery story about life, love, romance, and the intimate love arts. It takes you on a consciousness-raising journey into love, personal relationships, sacred sex, and physical intimacy. It's a novel and an instruction manual combined into a very tasteful book, written for both male and female readers. |
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. A Blissful Yoni Dance Story Line As told from the perspective of Stoney: Before you read this page, I recommend that you Meet the Main Characters.° Now that I've introduced myself and my friends, lets see how we all fit into the story. The Yoni Dance takes us on a consciousness raising journey about relationships and begins when when I first met Jazbell. Between attraction, denial, running away, and its eventual acknowledgment, our relationship went through a delightful and, at the same time, a stressful series of events. The book discusses numerous attributes of relationships and does so in the broader context of humans as divine beings living in physical bodies on planet Earth. Sensuality and sexuality are also a significant part of the book because they are a significant part of any healthy, intimate, love relationship. The story covers in detail the origin, the concepts, the principles, the intentions, the ground rules, the benefits and the joys of Caring and Loving Intimacy Connections° including the relationship between sex and spirituality. In a story format, The Yoni Dance describes numerous sensual-sexual- pleasure-enhancing practices. It shows you how to use your sexual energy as a tool to alter consciousness -- to intensify your pleasures -- to connect with the hidden, inner part of yourself. A portion of the story describes Jazbell and the spiritual awakening that changes her life. At age twenty-four, Jazbell decided to search for someone to write a book about her original sexual explorations and what they had evolved into. Very quickly and under rather unusual circumstances, out paths crossed Soon after meeting me, she decided to "test the waters" to see if I could be the person to write her story. Very slowly and carefully, she began asking me leading questions equally as carefully, began telling me tidbits about herself. Although she wouldn't admit it, she soon found that I was far more than just a writer. Without intending to, her attachment to me grew, and in spite of her efforts to stay emotionally distant, our interactions progressed way beyond anything she had intended. The story weaves around the personal, professional, and romantic relationship that developed between us as she shared with me the information that I needed to author the book she wanted written. I soon found that Jazbell’s initial sexual curiosity had spawned an intimacy sharing technique that can be used by almost anyone -- including you, the reader -- to enhance almost any type of interpersonal relationship. Like anything new and useful, this technique has grown and evolved. The basic idea originally dealt with the personal and private interactions between two consenting individuals. It has since evolved and now includes not only traditional, private, two-person interactions. It has also become the personal intimacy trend known today as CLI Connections (CLIC'c -- Caring & Loving Intimacy Connections). The Yoni Dance shares the CLI Connection arts, options, and possibilities with you in a story format. The story introduces you to Dr. Bernstein. We first met the day I had a flat tire on the highway adjacent to a local mental health institution. As I was changing the tire, a casually dressed man with long white hair and a cowboy hat spoke to me from behind the fence and inside the institution. Because of the circumstances, I thought the man was an inmate, and also thought he was a prospect for another story, so I arranged to come to visit him at the hospital. He's told me to ask for General Custer. General Custer turned out to be full of surprises. He's actually a psychologist and not an inmate. He's Dr. Herbert Bernstein and he introduces the readers to the three basic laws to the Universe -- The Law of Allowing -- The Law of Though -- The Law of Intentional Creation. He also offers us an eye-opening assessment of the assumptions upon which we, as humans base our facts. Each of us holds dozens of unexamined beliefs which literally control our lives. This section of the book examines and compares the three most fundamental assumptions of human existence -- Christian one-live-ism -- Reincarnation -- Atheism and then shows how each assumption brings a completely different meaning to life. Capital punishment and abortion are used here as two obvious examples of how the same thing can be seen from many different perspectives. Shortly after my encounter with Dr. Bernstein, Jazbell and I traveled to her friend's cabin for my first CLI Connection experience. While traveling to the cabin, I offered a vivid description of my first sexual experience. On my sixteenth birthday, the first love of my life gave me a birthday present that I vividly remembers to this day. She gave herself to me. The so-called cabin turned out to be an exquisite estate. I received a guided tour of the estate's main house, and then Jazbell slowly and sensually introduced me to the joys of CLI Connection sharing. Except for the estate property manager's home, Jazbell and I had the entire property to ourselves. As we shared the day together in a wonderfully inspiring setting, Jazbell combined principles, practices, and erotic games that I found absolutely delightful. Late that afternoon, my already heightened state of joy was infinitely enhanced when Jazbell and I witnessed a thunderstorm from a small cabin built into the side of a cliff which overhangs the river valley several thousand feel below. . In the last chapter of volume one, I describe the moment when I realizes the phenomenal implications of writing a book about CLI Connection Sharing. I also describes the benefits of reading the book° -- the benefits for men and the benefits for women. .
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. A Blissful Yoni Dance Story Line After a delightful, heart-opening, fun-filled Saturday with Jazbell in a CLI Connection context, I woke up on Sunday morning to find the world I knew just two days ago had vanished. While musing about Jazbell, about my love for her, and about how life leads us into totally unexpected experiences, I wrote about my feeling and shared my insights. (These are included in the book) Later that day in reaching out to contact Jazbell, I was floored in disbelief because she had flown off to New York without so much as a word to me. It was not until much later that I found out what she had done and why. Her Saturday CLI Connection experience with me had a profound affect upon her, also. She had been lying to herself about her attachment to me. That denial was completely blown away by our intimate sharing, and she found herself in a powerful tug of way between running to me and running away. Without a word to me, she flew off to New York and then to Europe, under the excuse that it was a business trip, but soon found she couldn't simply run away. She returned home and on the way stopped in Denver to seek the assistance of her dearest friend, Sarah. The book narrates the discussion between the two women as they offer us some deep insights into the pros and cons of relationships and the possible ways to solve this seemingly unsolvable tug of war. Jazbell then turned to her life-long mentor and friend, Intender, for some additional insights about life, love, and relationships. Intender also takes us deep into the fears, emotions, and intentions underlying the concept we call marriage. Then he offers ways to transform marriage from an institution onto a loving partnership. When Jazbell finally returned to San Francisco, we talked in detail about our differences and similarities and how we could accommodate each other's styles. Jazbell still did not acknowledge to me her feeling about me. . |
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. Then, in a lighthearted story format, Jazbell takes us back to her childhood and shares with us many of the gifts of knowledge and wisdom that, over the years, her mentor, Intender, has taught her. Shortly thereafter, I had the opportunity to experience a large and well organized CLI Connection and found it very pleasant and very different from what I had expected and also different from my first and private CLI Connection where Jazbell and I had been the only participants. At this CLI Connection , I had my first encounter with Sex as a Spiritual Experience. It has taken me some time to realize this, but now I see that orgasm, like everything else in life, is limited to what we believe and expect it to be. In the greater reality; however, orgasm is a multifaceted jewel that can be experience in dozens (if not hundreds) of different ways." As an example, here's a quote from chapter eight: When I connected with that light, it was as if I exploded. I, as Stoney, disappeared. I was no longer me experiencing an orgasm. I became the orgasm. I became completely engulfed in the experience. I was the experience itself. I cannot even begin to describe where I was or what I experienced, or how long I stayed in that altered state. All I know is that it was exquisite, ecstatic, profound, and beyond anything that can be described in words. I was pleased, surprised and delighted as I experienced Jazbell in social CLI Connection. I was also surprised at how the party progressed. Here's a quote from chapter nine: For most of the people present, including both Jazbell and me, sexual desires soon faded into the background. Much to my surprise, the evening became a social event like one might expect at a party where clothing was worn by all present. There was, however, one very significant difference -- nobody here was trying to get into anybody else’s pants. On the morning after my second CLI Connection experience, I woke up to find my world had changed again. In musing about Jazbell and about life, I became very aware of my feeling and my insights. (These are included in the book.) Then I started wondering where the form we call "heart-shaped" came from° because that shape is a poor representation of an actual heart. In only a matter of minutes the answer was kneeling before him. After finding the source of "heart-shaped" I again reverts to writing poetry this time I described the day he found out about sex. Jazbell was finally forced to choose between running away and confessing her love for me. She had a long heart to heart talk with her mentor who pushed her into seeing what was beneath her fear of commitment. After much beating around the bush, Jazbell and I finally acknowledged our love for each other. At this point, the book's discussion of relationships moves to a deeper more intense level, and ends with a chapter titled "The Gift." You'll have to read the book to find out what the gift is. .
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three is still being written. . Volume three deals with maintaining and improving relationships. It offers insights into some of the more esoteric aspects, practices and techniques of Tantric sexuality. It also explains how the same two basic practices that are used to enhance sexual pleasure can be used to overcome sexual dysfunctions such as impotence and pre-mature ejaculation. . |
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