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The Yoni Dance is a self-discovery story about life, love, romance, and the intimate love arts.

It takes you on a consciousness-raising journey into love, personal relationships, sacred sex, and physical intimacy.

It's a novel and an instruction manual combined into a very tasteful book, written for both male and female readers.

Manna From Heaven

From Volume One -- Chapter Thirty One

What It's About:

This excerpt describes the moment when Stoney realizes the phenomenal implications of writing a book about CLI Connection sharing. It also describes the benefits of reading the book -- the benefits for men and the benefits for women.

Setting the Context:

Jazbell has brought Stoney to the summer estate of one of her dear friends for the purpose of introducing him to an intimate, personal, one-on-one, CLI Connection. For the past six hours, they have enjoyed the private use of the entire property. As we join them, they are just completing the evening meal that has been brought to them by the property care managers, Frederica and Eric who live nearby in a separate home.

Jazbell:

“Frederica and Eric have offered to give us each a complete and thorough body treatment. However, if we begin such a treatment this late in the day, neither of us is going to be in any condition to drive home.”

Stoney:

“It’s that good?”

Jazbell:

“Better! If you like, they’ll come up and give us a taste of their mastery with foot treatments and brief, sample, body massages.”

Stoney:

“I definitely accept”

Jazbell phones Frederica and expresses our choices. Within twenty minutes she and Eric arrive. Frederica stays with us as Eric goes to prepare the massage room. While Jazbell and Frederica carry on a conversation, it occurs to me that most likely Frederica shares in some of the CLI Connections.

Immediately, without consciously intending to, I find my mind drifting into that oh-so-natural male tendency of imagining what she’d look like naked. And, with my thoughts now rolling in the sexual direction, I start imagining what it would be like to share a CLI Connection orgasmic ecstasy experience with her and Jazbell at the same time.

My mind is just getting warmed up when my fantasy is interrupted, and we’re ushered into a room that has two unique massage tables. The tables ride on springs, swing in circles, and have a way of making me feel like I‘m floating in space. Jazbell later tells me they were designed as one of the Of-Course Foundation’s° projects.

Jazbell and I are guided onto separate massage tables. A light blanket is placed over each of us, and we are told to close our eyes, breathe deeply, and relax. Once I’m on the table, I close my eyes and let go completely. My mind drifts, and soon, I’m back into my sexual fantasy with Frederica and Jazbell together. I ride this castle in the sky for only about a minute when suddenly it hits me why the CLI Connections are so popular with men. In less than five seconds a whole raft of feminine benefits also come drifting to me, and it immediately becomes apparent to me that men and women find CLI Connections intriguing for quite different reasons.

I lie there with my mind in overwhelm. I’ve just received two elephant-size thoughts in less than fifteen seconds. To make useful sense of this information, I’ll need to cut these elephants into bite-sized pieces. I start thinking, “How would I explain the benefits of a CLI Connections to my male friends?” The answer comes out something like this:

Guy Talk -- What Do CLI Connections Offer Men?

OK, fellows, how many sexually exciting women have we each seen in our lives? Thousands, perhaps hundreds of thousands. How many of them have we ever seen naked? Damned too few. With how many of them have we shared anything sexual? Yeah, I know. Damned fewer still. So, we walk around with absolutely no expectation of ever seeing naked that vast majority of the sexually attractive women we encounter. It’s just not possible. For us, they’re absolutely unreachable.

Let’s face it guys, where sex is involved, women are in control. We may have the power of command, but women have veto power. If we were to go out somewhere today with the intent of getting laid before the night was through, what do you suppose our chances would be? Well, I can’t say for you, so I’ll just speak for myself. Based on my history, I’d say my chances were somewhere between slim to none, unless of course, I was willing to hire a hooker or get it on with anyone that passed the gender test as female.

If you’ve got an excess of money or you look like Leonardo DiCaprio or some other, currently-in-vogue sex symbol, you probably can do just fine, but for us average Joe’s, getting laid as a result of just going out after it is relatively rare.

In contrast, let’s look at a woman’s chances of having sex under the same circumstances. What does she have to do? Let’s see... take a bath occasionally. Show up where there are men around. That’s about it.

While a single woman is saying to herself, “Shall I have sex today?” we single guys are saying to ourselves, “I wonder if I’ll ever get laid again?” Now let’s bring CLI Connection sharing into our lives, and then re-ask these same questions. Violà! BIG difference. Wow! My mind whirls as I think of the distinctions.

So what are the differences? First off, the CLI Connections offer a safe context in which nudity would be acceptable even appealing to a great many women who, in almost any other context, would never consider shedding their clothes in front of a man. The CLI Connection concept offers you a way to invite the women you know to join you in a personal CLI Connection session. But from the male perspective, here's another very intriguing use for the CLI Connections. If you become a member of someone else’s circle, particularly if it’s a large and well-organized group, you have no idea who might also be at a gathering.

My mind goes berserk. A whole new world of possibilities opens up. The woman you drooled over at the market yesterday just might show up at your next CLIC gathering and strip off her clothes right there in front of you. And, if she doesn’t, some other equally attractive and enticing woman probably will.

Not only that, talking about CLI Connections offers a way to bring the topic of sex into a polite conversation with a woman. In almost any other type of discussion, talking about sex, and particularly about mutual masturbation, would be an absolute taboo.

Yeah, guys, I know the quandary. How do we even bring up the topic of sex
with women without appearing as jerks or perverts, to say nothing of makings sexual invitations in the present sexual–harassment-charged environment. Well, fellows, here’s the answerrrrrrr. . .

On the rrrrr’s of answer, lightning flashes in my head. My eyes pop open; I sit bolt upright; and look at Jazbell. She’s lying peacefully with her eyes closed. My sudden movement startles both Eric and Frederica. They look at me with questioning eyes. I say nothing, lie back down, and close my eyes.

Jazbell, that master of men, wants me to write a novel about the CLI Connections. So after I write this book, all a guy would have to do is bring the book to the attention of several of the women he comes in contact with and bingo! success would be almost guaranteed. It’d be only a matter of time until one or more of them would express curiosity about CLI Connections and then, after a discussion, she'd likely express a willingness to share sexual joys with him in the CLI Connection's safe and caring context. And who knows where that could eventually lead?

Girl Talk -- What Do CLI Connections Offer Women?

As I lie quietly basking in thoughts of my good fortune and enjoying the touch of Frederica’s hands on me, I drift into thoughts about the CLI Connection benefits for women. Although quite different from those for men, I imagine them to be equally satisfying. I think of several things that seem to me to be feminine advantages, but I’m only a man. What do I know for sure about women and how they think? So I decide I’ll have to ask some female CLI Connection participants to speak for themselves.

With that thought I drift into imagining the feminine joys of sexual sharing, and soon I find myself in still another time warp as if I were actually, at this moment, listening to women I haven’t yet talked with. Here’s what I imagine I hear, and to my great surprise, my thoughts turn out to be very much in harmony with what, sometime later, I actually do hear.

*** “I love being in a context where I can relate freely and openly with others and be treated as a person rather than as just a sex object. It’s great to be respected for who I am.”

*** “In CLI Connections, I’ve had the opportunity to develop caring, understanding, and respectful relationships prior to committing myself to any personal sexual involvement.”

*** “I feel safe knowing I’m in a setting where I can express and share my needs and desires without fear of being pressured into sexual intercourse.”

*** “Sex, for me, has always been an active, energetic connection with the Cosmic Consciousness that animates the universe. It’s great to find others who also acknowledge the relationship between sex and our spiritual nature.”

*** “What I love most are the CLI Connection discussion groups. I feel comfortable discussing things in a CLIC setting that I’d never dare to bring up in mixed company in any other surroundings.”

*** “I love sex, but in a world with AIDS, I’ve been afraid to relate intimately with men. CLI Connection sharing has been a real godsend for me.”

*** “I'm an exhibitionist. I love to have men watch me play with myself, but before the CLI Connections came along, I never felt safe doing so because outside of that safe environment, I simply can't trust a man with an erection."

*** “I feel safe and in control of my sexuality. I can set my own sexual limits, express them to the men present, and know those limits will be honored.”

*** “I love sharing orgasmic intimacy with a man while, at the same time, avoiding the dangers and implications of sexual intercourse.”

.Social Benefits. ...

The Social Benefits of CLI Connections

As the voices fade away, I find my physical body lying quietly on the massage table, but inside, I’m anything but quiet. Mentally, I’m in another whirlwind of anticipation. I can hardly wait to confront Jazbell with my insight. I know -- I just know I am right. My mind is spinning with thoughts about writing a book describing CLI Connections and what that book will mean to those who read it.

If I’m any good at my craft, the book I write will inspire the creation of a vast number of one-on-one safe-sex sharing situations. It will also inspire a new way of relating for those who choose to relate sexually in a group context. Hundreds of thousands, perhaps even millions of people will reduce or eliminate their sexual frustrations and eliminate or greatly reduce their need to indulge in domination, sexual violence, or those all-to-pervasive money for sex situations.

Writing a book and telling the world about the CLI Connection arts and how to apply them to your life is a way to bring more love, freedom, peace, harmony and joy into the world. The book will tell people how to share in the type of intimacy, care, and love that I’m experiencing today -- the intimacy, care, and love that Jazbell says is also so common in the multi-person CLI Connections.

Publishing the book about CLI Connection sharing will inspire sexual freedom, and because sexual freedom is so closely related to political freedom, the book will increase freedom in every other aspect of human life. For a moment, I think of the equally strong correlation between sexual repression and violence. It will also reduce the harmful effects of those who are presently promoting sexual repression.

I shout to myself, “Just plain WOW!” The implications of what such a book could produce are phenomenal. Either Jazbell is a genius or she is getting guidance from a very loving God. Either way I’m delighted to be a part of it.

I am so completely lost in my realization and its consequences that I miss much of the joy of the massage I am receiving. Even so, when Eric and Frederica finish, we both express our sincere gratitude and tell them we’ll be leaving soon. We each receive a genuine hug from both of them and an invitation to return soon. Then they head back to their home.

As soon as they leave, I go to where I left my extra clothes and find a quarter. I return to Jazbell, hold the quarter out to her and say, “OK, kiddo, I know what’s up.”

She looks at me with puzzled eyes. I say, “Do you remember our second meeting a Giorgio’s?” (See Volume One, Chapter Five)

“Yes,” she says. She still looks puzzled.

“A penny for your thoughts,” I say. She smiles and that endearing sparkle of mischief lights up her eyes.

“Do you recall the mystery in that conversation which you refused to tell me about and how the saying, 'a penny for your thoughts' evolved, and ended with your words, ‘Put your quarter away but keep it handy’?”

She responds with a slow, inviting, emotional-filled, "Yes."

“Well, here’s your quarter.” I place the quarter in her hand a wrap her fingers around it.

She opens her hand, looks at the quarter, then back at me. Her smile broadens, she leans toward me, looks directly into my eyes, and in a confident, lively manner, say, “OK, clever man, what’s the quarter for?”

I mirror her body language, her eye contact and voice inflections. “For the book you want me to write about CLI Connections.”

She chuckles lightly, straightens her body, pulls back from me slightly, and responds with, “You do have a very creative mind, don’t you? Good deductive reasoning, Stoney! Yes, you’re correct. Jim and I decided to publicize the CLIC concepts and I agreed to find a writer.” She then steps back and turns away ending our little non-verbal sparing session.

I say, “That book could trigger a profound social/sexual transformation.”

“We know. That’s why we want it written.”

“So am I to be that writer?”

“Only if you want to be.”

“No, I’d rather write about fat-assed princes and new greenhouses.”

“As you will; however, if you change your mind, please let me know.”

“OK, now who’s being the smart ass?”

She laughs and says, “What goes around comes around.”

“Yes, I do choose to be that writer.”

“Good. I’ll tell Jim and we can talk about the details later.”

I say, “I hope I’m more than just a business deal for you.”

She remains silent. The sparkle in her eye dims. I look at her and repeat my question. “I hope I’m more than just a business deal for you?”

Finally, to my relief, she says, “You needn’t be concerned about that.”

“That’s more good news,” I say.

“OK,” she says, “Let’s gather up our things, clean up any messes we’ve made, and head back to town.”

In about thirty minutes we are out the door and on our way home. I’m so hyper that I insist on driving. Jazbell seems very mellow while I’m jazzed; so on the way home, we just share each other’s presence, mostly in silence.

What I don't realize, at this time, is that our day together has triggered Jazbell’s relationship fears and has pushed her into a deep emotional turmoil -- a turmoil that is the mirror image of my own. It is not until much later that I find out that one part of her is falling in love with me while another part is deeply into fear and is madly running away. As for my conflict, I’m already very much in love with her, but I’ve promised to keep our relationship purely professional, and I'm doing so out of fear that if I confess my real feelings, she'll run away.

In spite of my intellectual promise, when I look at her, I find myself being swept away by waves of emotion. I also find myself sitting on a fence between heaven and hell — heaven because I’m physically near her and hell because I can’t really be close to her — heaven because I can see her and hell because I can’t hold her in my arms —heaven because I love her and hell because I can’t tell her -- heaven because I’m overjoyed with love and hell because, as close as I am to her, I may never experience her love for me.

Obviously, I'm also going to share with you how I get off that fence on the heaven side, but the in-depth details of our conflicts and how we resolve them are another story for another day.

In the mean time, the drive back is uneventful except that Jazbell shares with me one more piece of new information. She says that it took her only seven days from the time she and Jim decided to publicize the CLI Connections for her to find me. I want to know more about this, but I figure that that, too, is another story for another day, so I don’t ask any questions.

This has, indeed, turned out to be a truly extraordinary day.

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